Irma Vermaat
Who the heck is Irma?
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How others perceive me:
characteristics (according to FB contacts, non anonymous): adorable, artistic, assertive, attractive, charming, creative, diligent, entertaining, famous, flirtatious, free spirited, fun, humble, independent, intelligent, kind, misunderstood, modest, mysterious, perfectionist, playful, responsible, sassy, serious, sexy, smart, stylish, sympathetic, thoughtful, unpredictable
cloud of adjectives (according to FB contacts, non anonymous): hot, silly, kind, loving, caring, sweet, gentle, intelligent, random, sarcastic, joyful, cynical, playful, kissable, witty, worrier, sensual, wicked, voluptuous, openminded, brilliant, flirtatious, magical, enigmatic, whimsical, teaser, brunette, introverted, extroverted, visual, tactile, seeking, wistful, curvy, insomniac, temptress, capricious, melancholic, pale, empath
defined (according to FB contacts, anonymous): curious, intelligent, thoughtful, multi-tasker, sexy, erotic, helpful, bossy, sweet, cautious, loving, eccentric, sassy, empathic, beautiful, smart
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5 word challenge
Antwerp
Benelux
Erotica
Eyecandy to go
Polyamory
Savings for a rainy day
Things I like:
books: the dictionary, the unbearable lightness of being, mists of avalon, house of leaves, le petit prince, les fleurs du mal, the book of laughter and forgetting, paula, eva luna, portrait in sepia, the infinite plan, daughter of fortune, of love and other demons, spy in the house of love, house of incest, winter of artifice, poèms saturniens, l'enfant noir, une si longue lettre, dictionary of the khazars
movies: seven, being john malkovich, pulp fiction, breaking the waves, delicatessen, amelie, pi, cinema paradiso, shrek, casablanca, blue velvet, festen, metropolis, fargo, my own private idaho, amores perros, the straight story, the unbearable lightness of being, exotica, wild at heart, y tu mama tambien, city of god, hable con ella, the pillow book, la double vie de veronique, le huitième jour, atame, matador, mists of avalon, the accused, jungle fever, liaisons dangereuses, kandahar, la ley del deseo, todo sobre mi madre, carne trémula, kika, jamon jamon, prospero's books, yaaba, la vie est belle, ti lai, halfaouine, les silences du palais, raining stones, riff-raff, arizona dream, a streetcar named desire, il postino, das experiment, la haine, il ladro di bambini, toto le héros, la dolce vita
music: tom waits, neil young, the cure, billie holiday, nick cave, sergent garcia, pixies, johnny cash, the cramps, world music, apocalyptica, poe, salif keita, 16 horsepower, george brassens, cheb khaled, baaba maal, oumou sangare, taraf de haïdouks, cesaria evora, les negresses vertes, radio tarifa, de kift, orchestra baobab
colours: yellow, orange, red, black
food: thai, japanese, italian, indian, mexican, icecream, chocolate, pancakes
random: africa, anthropology, bdsm, bread, caipirinha, chocolate, creativity, culture, dancing, darkness, desire, eloquence, erotica, fado, flamenco, flirting, fountain pens, handwritten letters, imagination, intellectual stimulation, intelligent women, intimate conversations, irony, latex, leather, literature, memetics, moleskine notebooks, open minded people, poetry, polyamory, secrets, seduction, sensuality, sunshine, synchronicity, temptation, theatre, velvet, vw amazon, vw karmann ghia, whimsicality
Some things on my mind:
new encounters, the impression you made on me, work, a career change, the short stories i should write down, the smell of memories, identity, my qualities and character flaws, how i'm ever going to keep my mind quiet once in a while, insomnia, synchronicity, which language to learn next, both my online and offline friends, my need to relate to people, the whimsicalities of life, catch-22 situations, inconsistencies, the concept of polyamory and the consequences, ...
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Four Steps To Opening A Marriage
Public Bookmark added by Irma Vermaat on 08/17/2008Being in a successful open marriage is about four things: 1) finding the support you need, both within your marriage and from the people around you; 2) accepting that jealousy is a manufactured emotion that, with enough conscious effort, you can learn to let go of; 3) treating an open marriage ...
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Suzanne Portnoy: Life, Liberty & the Pursuit of Jefferson: A Sex Blogger Fights for Custody of his Kids
Public Bookmark added by Irma Vermaat on 08/17/2008"Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness." The phrase came to me this morning while musing over the predicament of my friend, the sex blogger Jefferson. Because his ex-wife recently discovered he is bisexual, he is now fighting for custody of his kids. It's an ironic twist that the man who ...
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The Daily Californian - Sharing the Wealth
Public Bookmark added by Irma Vermaat on 08/17/2008I'm told that if something seems too good to be true, it probably is. That's likely why I've never given polyamory a second thought. Openly dating two (or more) people without drama or moral conundrums sounds great, but there's got to be a catch, right? Further research, however, indicates that ...
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Nine Signs That You’re Dating A Narcissist
Public Bookmark added by Irma Vermaat on 08/17/2008How To Know If You're Dating A Narcissist
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30 Places To Have Sex Before You're 30
Public Bookmark added by Irma Vermaat on 08/17/200830 Places To Have Sex Before You're 30
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Identi.ca - The new Twitter replacement?
Comment added by Irma Vermaat on 07/03/2008Mmm ... I don't like how the URI now seems to be http://hewitt.controlezvous.ca/. -
Identi.ca - The new Twitter replacement?
Comment added by Irma Vermaat on 07/03/2008I prefer Plurk for all my Twitter needs ... -
Ewwwww!
Comment added by Irma Vermaat on 06/27/2008Mmm ... I absolutely hate this new look. Too many different colours. It's actually distracting. Of course, it's a matter of taste, but to me it is a reason to reconsider using Twine. Actually, it isn't just the colours either. I don't like the new lay out of our profile pages. I don't like the ... -
Can you add the Librarything profile
Comment added by Irma Vermaat on 06/20/2008Can you also add Plurk? Structure is http://www.plurk.com/user/username :-) -
What is a twine?
Comment added by Irma Vermaat on 06/20/2008Twines help to keep my scattered mind in place. "Keeping an open mind is important, but not so open that your brain falls out" (James Oberg, space engineer). At the same time, twines leave me room for wandering, and wondering. -
Hapax's profile - StumbleUpon
Comment added by Irma Vermaat on 06/08/2008Would probably not use the word 'cool' but I agree he's one of the more interesting SU members.

Which social networks do you use?